You know how people feel when they start tweedling their thumbs, twirling their hair, fiddling with stuffs around them, pacing the floor up and down....it's an irritating feeling to be in but those are just some things people will do when they are unsure of what decision to make or what needs to be done next. Somehow the thoughts either do not flow smoothly or one too many thoughts flooding the mind....ended up with confusion, dillusion and uncertainty....
I almost went through that but thankfully was quick to snap out of it....because if I didn't, it would be no different from a jerk I used to know...muddleheaded, stubborn, selfish, indecisive and rude...
When caught in such a situation, it's best to clear the mind, put a foot down firmly, think of the consequences, make a concrete final decision that's best for you first...think of yourself first before others...no one makes decision for you...you are in total control of your own life...choices are open for you...you only don't have a choice when it comes to life and death...when it's time to kick the bloody bucket, you jollywell kick it good ok...for now, no one control you...you steer your own ship...
Once you do so, carry on forward...what's the use of making a decision then come back and revisit the past just to dwell on it...yes to err is human...you may reminisce from time to time but that's about it...don't stay there too long...time moves, so must you...learn from your past experiences, good or bad, still experience....improve on the good, avoid the bad...
If you need help, shout out for it...it's no shame at all to ask for help...I thank the Good Lord for my friends...be it financially, emotionally or any other aspects....but once you ask for help, do bear in mind, there's just so far one can support and render assistance...one can only push so far...ultimately, initiative and decision is still yours to make....to change for the betterment, answer lies with you...make a wise decision which suits you....
I haven't make a wrong decision to help, I haven't make a wrong move to let go of things....I'm good...I hope you will be too...
I almost went through that but thankfully was quick to snap out of it....because if I didn't, it would be no different from a jerk I used to know...muddleheaded, stubborn, selfish, indecisive and rude...
When caught in such a situation, it's best to clear the mind, put a foot down firmly, think of the consequences, make a concrete final decision that's best for you first...think of yourself first before others...no one makes decision for you...you are in total control of your own life...choices are open for you...you only don't have a choice when it comes to life and death...when it's time to kick the bloody bucket, you jollywell kick it good ok...for now, no one control you...you steer your own ship...
Once you do so, carry on forward...what's the use of making a decision then come back and revisit the past just to dwell on it...yes to err is human...you may reminisce from time to time but that's about it...don't stay there too long...time moves, so must you...learn from your past experiences, good or bad, still experience....improve on the good, avoid the bad...
If you need help, shout out for it...it's no shame at all to ask for help...I thank the Good Lord for my friends...be it financially, emotionally or any other aspects....but once you ask for help, do bear in mind, there's just so far one can support and render assistance...one can only push so far...ultimately, initiative and decision is still yours to make....to change for the betterment, answer lies with you...make a wise decision which suits you....
I haven't make a wrong decision to help, I haven't make a wrong move to let go of things....I'm good...I hope you will be too...
To that jerk, grow up and get yourself some friends...good luck!~
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