We grew up with many fantasies and dreams in our heads...those little things we made up in our minds...lulling time away...idling...lost in our imagination...
Some of these include living a luxurious life, earning big bucks, buying condos and bungalows, doing nothing but enjoying the entire life away without having to work, eating delicacies, having tonnes of beautiful clothes to wear, shoes to change every single day, a bottomless pit of money to spend, lavish lifestyles to lead, fabulous parties to attend, having the perfect handsome or stunning boyfriends and girlfriends as life partners and many more...
But look at most of us now...struggling mostly just trying to meet daily needs...putting food on the table, clothes on our back, paying bills, working day and night...slaving, slogging...whatever happen to living a life the envy of many, whatever happen to finding the perfect soulmate, whatever happen to the so-called happening parties...
Take some time to reflect...look at us, look at our partners, look at the things we have...a far cry from what we had pictured it to be...those whom attained well at least a fraction of what I mentioned above, then good for you...for the rest of us, life goes on yes...
As we age, most of the fantasies vanish without rhyme or reason...most of the dreams are too far fetched till they gradually lost their appeal...why? because wisdom rules our senses and reminds us of the reality...be it harsh or not...we know what we can manage, what we can afford and what we can do...our eyes are opened so to speak...if things don't go our way, we can always find other means...adaptability and flexibility must become part of our drive in life...as for some, still wallowing in their own fantasies, not able to accept reality...living in denial, living in lies...
So in my sincere opinion, a change must take place for the betterment...decide what's good for yourself...
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Some of these include living a luxurious life, earning big bucks, buying condos and bungalows, doing nothing but enjoying the entire life away without having to work, eating delicacies, having tonnes of beautiful clothes to wear, shoes to change every single day, a bottomless pit of money to spend, lavish lifestyles to lead, fabulous parties to attend, having the perfect handsome or stunning boyfriends and girlfriends as life partners and many more...
But look at most of us now...struggling mostly just trying to meet daily needs...putting food on the table, clothes on our back, paying bills, working day and night...slaving, slogging...whatever happen to living a life the envy of many, whatever happen to finding the perfect soulmate, whatever happen to the so-called happening parties...
Take some time to reflect...look at us, look at our partners, look at the things we have...a far cry from what we had pictured it to be...those whom attained well at least a fraction of what I mentioned above, then good for you...for the rest of us, life goes on yes...
As we age, most of the fantasies vanish without rhyme or reason...most of the dreams are too far fetched till they gradually lost their appeal...why? because wisdom rules our senses and reminds us of the reality...be it harsh or not...we know what we can manage, what we can afford and what we can do...our eyes are opened so to speak...if things don't go our way, we can always find other means...adaptability and flexibility must become part of our drive in life...as for some, still wallowing in their own fantasies, not able to accept reality...living in denial, living in lies...
So in my sincere opinion, a change must take place for the betterment...decide what's good for yourself...
Bukan niat untuk mengutuk, tetapi sebagai renungan bersama...
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