We plan, He decides....

As humans, we only have so much power to do things that we wanted to...There's always a point, a thin red border line, that we juz cannot cross as it's really way beyond our control...for there's juz so much that we are capable of and can do...time equal to eternity is spent on planning, countless effort put in, feverish work being done...but alas, it came to naught coz somehow somewhere things got screwed up, agreements dun meet eye to eye, contacts fell apart, communication broke down or relayed wrongly, views misintepreted...temperature escalates, anger flares, temper rages, sorrow lingers, verbal exchanges are frequent... When we've reached that point of time, we have to let it go and leave it to 'higher authority'...maturity will tell us that there's no point in pursuing matters of the past…leave your options open...exercise ur freedom of thoughts…never go digging up for skeletons in the cupboards...instead, pick ourselves up, dust urselves off and try again for new things...things may not work out as what we desire but hey at least something is being done...stay not in the past but time to move on with life with a more open mind....with every setbacks, we'll come out stronger than the previous one hopefully...most imptly, stay positive...always have the easy thought stashed away at the back of our head so tat if anything uncalled for happened, it wouldnt be tat devastating...mentality wise, be prepared...think of alternatives to fall back upon...If you see things that u think it's wrong, think first before confrontation takes place...a step back may save many situations....step forward only when the time permits...
Today, my eyes are opened...i learned some new things...made some queries, got some answers and understand more than i thought i knew…i think i know what is to be done in the future...i'll take note of certain things and as someone said earlier today 'learnt from ur past mistakes'…of coz tat makes sense…yeap! I can’t agree more with you, buddy!~
Whatever it is, I pray for the betterment of the future…things will still happen no doubt but as we all know it, while the happy times last, it’s heaven for us all….Peace & Love =)